Sex with a new partner

Or maybe it's been a long time since your partner has gotten it on, and they end up finishing more quickly than they'd like. Then give him a long, drawn-out kiss. Stick with positions that are familiar, feel awesome, and don't require any crazy-ass acrobatics. On the other hand, having sex with someone new can also be super nerve-racking. To rescue the mood, you need to acknowledge these slips subtly in a way that suits the kind of sex you're having.

When it doesn't go as expected, that can have a way of bringing your self-confidence down. About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy. You can be the most confident person in the world and still get a serious case of performance anxiety when you're about to do the deed with a new partner.

Take the time to talk it out, then try, try again. So if you plan to give sex with a new partner another go with this person, stay optimistic. Just be sure you praise something that really does feel good because he'll file away whatever you say and often incorporate it into future sex sessions and for God's sake, don't fake any pleasure where there is none. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. Having sex with someone new for the very first time can be super exciting.